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Over the years of trials and tribulations, I've learned how to collapse time.


...when I use this ability it allows me to do an impossible amount of powerful actions that propel my life forward in a relatively short amount time - while having fun and not getting burnt out :)


I'll be honest, I'm not perfect at it... but I'm getting damn good.


I'm going to break this down and show you how I do it to the best of my ability.


Over the past 11 weeks, I have:


  • Uprooted my entire existence and moved to a new country.

  • Found a new home for 3 months with 3 cats and a garden, and moved into it.

  • Supported my family through an absolute crisis of someone nearly killing themselves.

  • Organized a sailing expedition in Greece with dozens of moving parts, gear, people and logistics.

  • Closed 5 new big deals in my business, most of them working on the floor without even a proper desk.

  • Published 10+ videos, and filmed way more.

  • Started this newsletter, spent 100+ hours writing and published 12 newsletters.

  • Read a new book.

  • Showed up consistently for my teenage daughter to the best of my ability.

  • I've ran about 100 miles.

  • Hosted a 5-hour life-altering workshop for people.

  • Worked out furiously almost every other day.

  • Supported my clients through major challenges and breakthroughs.

  • Made love to a beautiful woman about 7 times.

  • Attended a 7 day retreat and 2 Ayahuasca ceremonies.

  • Took my daughter to the beach.

  • Took a mandatory 5 hour course from transport Canada because I lost a piece of plastic certifying I am a captain.

  • Spent 3 days in a Spanish beurocracy process

  • Bought a new a car.

  • Fought and won a battle with rats invading the insulation in the roof.

  • Assembled and installed an air conditioning unit.

  • Coached four people for free just to help people in need.

  • Practiced free-diving to be better at spear-fishing.

  • Performed my music at gatherings and ceremonies in front of large groups.

  • Practiced fire spinning.

  • Took 3 friends on an outing to an epic nature getaway with waterfalls and diving pools.

  • Mowed the lawn on the property I'm care-taking of

  • Spent hours on mentoring calls with my main mentors which have propelled my mission forward.

  • Spent hours deepening a friendship with a beloved friend.

  • Got help and moved through and healed major traumas that surfaced during this time.

  • Made friends with a cat.

  • Launched a new potential business venture with one of my mentors who I'm helping with manifesting her vision.

  • Filmed a new visual story for a new angle I want to take with my videos.

  • and probably more things I can't think of right now...


I've also made some mistakes, it's resulted in some deep pain and learning on how to be a better man and leader.


In my life, I vow to be an unstoppable force of nature.



Maybe this list impresses you, maybe it doesn't, it's not the point.



This isn't about some productivity hack or believing that getting more stuff done makes you a better person.


My point is that the excuse of "I don't have the time" doesn't exist in my life anymore...


It's a belief I've been eradicating and transcending in my system and I encourage you to do so as well.


There is always time, and there is a way to collapse time.


And most importantly, none of the things on the list above have been done through effort and tightening down... precisely the opposite.


The secret is relaxation, and letting it be done through you.


I will explain this and give some examples. Most people think that time is linear and finite.


Meaning, I have 10 minutes, 10 minutes is 10 minutes, and there will never be more or less than 10 minutes in that time frame.


It's not true.


That's just what appears on the surface of 3D reality.


A lot can happen in 10 minutes.


You can sit and binge-watch NetFlix for 10 minutes.


A baby can be born in 10 minutes.


Someone can say "I love you" and alter your life forever.


A war can break out in 10 minutes.


An infinite amount of things can happen in 10 minutes, time is not linear.


You can spend 10 minutes being utterly ineffective and frustrated.


Or you can spend 10 minutes in pure inspired action channeling your most powerful work and get more done than you did in 2 years in those 10 minutes.


The secret is energy and relaxation.


If you take a deep look at the world, you will notice that the most powerfully effective and joyful people are actually the most relaxed.


The secret to that relaxation is knowing that everything that is meant to be created through you has already been created on an energetic level.


It already exists.


It's why you can feel that vision or that calling in your heart, you feel it because it's real, and what you want actually wants you as well.


All you have to do is become a frequency match for it.

This means relaxing and getting inspired


When you create the proper conditions in your body, the right actions will arise spontaneously through you, precisely at the right time, with minimum effort.


The problem arises when we egoicly think that we actually have to "make it happen" by trying harder, pushing, or overthinking.


Believe me I've tried all the time management courses and approaches, and none of them ever worked for me.


All it ever created was more tightness in my body and more suffering as I relentlessly tried to organize an endless amount of tasks and push through life.


It squeezed all the creative oxygen out of my body, made me stressed, ineffective, physically ill, disconnected from my spirit, and out of tune with the deeper wisdom trying to move through me.


These days I do things very differently.


I work very little with "to-do" lists and work primarily with creating energetic alignment within my body.


I simply move through my day focusing on the most expansive state or action I can focus on, having fun and doing what fuels me the most... and then... stuff just comes through me.


It's like a spark of inspiration hits, and I just know exactly what to do, and it gets done effortlessly with minimum effort.


Take the writing of this current issue as an example.


I actually sat down at the computer feeling completely blocked.


I tried to write, but nothing came through.


I knew the article I wanted to write was already written, so instead of getting upset about it I realized I just had to become a frequency match for it.


I went for a walk, made a smoothie, talked to the cat, and took some time to connect and feel the vision for my life and what I'm building.


...and then spontaneously.


"Oh yeah, that idea about time collapsing I wanted to articulate."


That was 30 minutes ago, now I'm having a blast.


The real beauty that is meant to come through you always happens when you're in an expansive and relaxed state, and it often arises non-linearly.


Entering this state and being a master at this is a process because it means being able to embrace high amounts of what your mind tells you is "chaos" or "boredom"


Your mind tells you to sit and write an article, it feels like there's a gun next to your head if you don't get this thing done right.


Your wisdom tells you to eat something and pet the cat instead.


Your mind doesn't know that eating something and petting the cat will actually help you get the thing done, so you wrestle internally with the dissonance.


Over time though, you learn to trust this process and to discern what the path is and where you're just fooling yourself with distractions or trying to run away from doing what you're afraid to do (more on this below)


The key is relaxing when you want to contract, zooming out, and trusting that it will be done through you when it needs to be done.


Hold a firm vision, and relax.


If it doesn't feel like joy in your body, don't do it.


f you don't know what to do and you're feeling anxious, scarce, or tense... stop trying to pluck it out of the ether.


Trust that it will come when the time is right and simply focus on relaxing, breathing into the tightness, and focus on something else.


If something expansive appears on your path, if it vibrates in your body, it's probably a sign it's part of your non-linear process towards your vision.


A couple of months earlier my friend called me up and invited me to a retreat he was hosting.


My whole being wanted to come and hang out with my friends and be part of this retreat.


But I felt fear, contraction, and massive amounts of guilt.


My mind came up with a whole list of reasons as to why I couldn't attend this retreat...


Why it was irresponsible for me to do this with my work obligations, I had just moved and had a ton on my "list" and my life felt chaotic.


Money, time, I need to focus on my work, I need to manage the sailing expedition, etc...


I wrestled with the choice, but my wisdom won over and I ended up going.


I had a great time, I grew, made new friends, healed a major wound, and came out feeling more inspired and fresh.


Worked flowed 10x faster after the retreat and I was more equipped to face a major challenge that came my way.


The sailing expedition also sold out and I did very little, the right people just showed up.


I take this approach to my daily tasks as well.


Sometimes I have a list of stuff to get done and I do it.


More often. I look at that list for the day I tunnel vision only on the most exciting thing on that list that actually vibrates in my body.


What always happens when I do this is that the feeling of excitement starts to propagate and expand through my day and leads me to see things clearer.


Usually, this leads to realizing that 90% of the things on that to-do list weren't actually important.


Some of the coolest things I've created have come about this way.


I write all the sh*t my mind thinks I SHOULD do to clear my head of the noise.


...but then I do what I WANT to do instead.


A CAVEAT: This is a learned skill, you need discernment. If you don't have experience pushing through fear and resistance you can easily use this wisdom to go in circles and indulge in avoidance.


Sometimes you have a firm commitment to yourself and you need to learn to apply this wisdom within the constraints of commitment.


As an example, I have a firm commitment to publish a newsletter every Sunday, that commitment came from inspiration. I choose to do that knowing it will be difficult sometimes, but I apply this way of doing things to that commitment, I'm not going to spend the whole day drinking lemonade because that's what my inner child would rather do.


Continued...


Most of the things people put on their "to-do" list are there because of guilt...


...we feel lost in life and a feel profound sense of emptiness, so in an effort to get somewhere we try to stuff that emptiness with tasks we think will get us somewhere.


Instead, this breeds more emptiness and disconnection.


A wonderful thing happens when you embrace that emptiness instead.


Relaxation, and Space.


Sometimes a lot of tears have to come through you and pain needs to move before that arrives...


...but when it does arrive, the things that are dying to come through you will naturally start to come through you effortlessly.


I cried for 3 months straight almost every evening before the vision that I'm currently working on crystallized for me.


The caveat:


Relaxation doesn't mean distracting yourself or being sedentary.


Sometimes, actually taking a break, turning off, and taking a rest actually IS the highest and most expensive action.


But for me, that time is best spent lying quietly, resting, walking, breathing, or reading a book I enjoy.


The key to time collapsing is removing distractions and senseless life-draining people activities from your life that disperse your attention.


I've learned that my attention is my most valuable asset.


Even if I'm doing nothing, I'm usually meditating and dedicating my attention to the moment, or reflecting inwards.


The Most Important Thing:


Do what you love.


Don't hold back. Recently I had a man sign up for my sailing expedition...


He knew he wanted to do it but he didn't have the resources to do so.


He was so clear in his heart that he wanted to come on the trip he decided to trust that the money would arrive and he put whatever money he had towards a deposit for the trip.


Not only have all the funds for the trip shown up, they have arrived most miraculously in a very short amount of time. (A story I'll share in an upcoming newsletter.)


Time collapsing is like an infinite "on-demand" superpower given to you by the creator.


Picture it like an infinite amount of time and resources in a Universal faucet, you just have to put your bowl up to the faucet and fill it.


Most people never come up to the faucet, and complain their bowl is empty, "I don't have time", "I don't have the resources"


I recently made a video titled "Why I don't believe my own bullsh*t anymore and how it changed me", it's worth a watch.


There is an infinite amount of time, and miracles will happen, but you have to take a leap, do what you are afraid to do, and take action towards your dreams.


When you act from inspiration, time will bend in your favor.


You can't think your way into this.


You have to act your way into this.


Whatever demand for time or miracle you need will be met but you actually have to show the Universe you mean it, otherwise it won't show up and time will not bend in your favor.


What are you waiting for?

I've spent much of my life praying for miracles.


Until I gave up and started creating them for myself.


Miracles don't just happen.


They are created.


If you asked me long ago what a hero was, I would probably tell you that a hero is someone akin to those who run into burning buildings to save people;


...someone who can muster the courage to overcome fear and unfortunate odds.


Today, I believe differently.


I believe the hero is someone who can conquer their own mind.


The one who can lay down their ego, their beliefs, their identity, and open up to something new.


That's when miracles happen.


That's when change finally occurs.


That's when healing finally occurs.


Most people listen to the voice in their heads that says "this is what is true", "this is what you are", "it can't be done."


The hero listens to that voice, embraces it even, but doesn't let it embrace him or her.


Most people never question their own thoughts.


The hero doesn't believe their own mind.


This makes them unstoppable.


The hero, when in a difficult situation, is the one who finds the

strength within him or her to break the mold of their own egoic conditioning, and align with a higher truth.


This isn’t easy.


The higher truth isn’t always palpable, it isn't always immediately rectifying, it isn't always immediately supported, seen or acknowledged, the evidence for it doesn't immediately arrive.


Because it often means the end of a certain story.


Feathers will be ruffled, people will be upset, and your own mind may rebel against you, but the sweetness of the truth will usher you forward like a light piercing the darkness in impossible times.


The truth will set you free.


But first it might piss you off.


It's not fun to see that you've literally been creating your own prison, but if you want to be the hero of your own reality, you must face it.


This is what a hero does: the hero holds space for a new possibility without having the full picture or the plan, just the vague feeling, a “touch in” with a new reality on the other side of the status-quo.


The hero doesn't have all the answers.


They only know how to ask the right questions.


If you look through history, you’ll see that no rebellion or war has ever led to true freedom or lasting peace, but the greatest monumental shifts in our reality have always been led by a single man or woman asking one simple question: “What if something else is possible?”


Ask that question long enough and you will receive a vision.


After you receive a vision, the most haunting question that most people never ask, is this:


“What if it’s real? What if this is really possible for me?”


Ask that question long enough, deep enough, and a fire will birth within you that will be unstoppable.


People follow heroes because they hold the key to something new, beyond the known.


Before you can be such a hero for others, you must first be capable of being a hero for oneself, and this is the greatest challenge and initiation of life.


A hero must be able to navigate what I call the "hard hard"


What is the "hard hard"?


There are times when things are easy...


There are times when things are hard.


And there are times when things are extremely hard, I call that the "hard hard."


1. When things are easy...



When you have a deep connection to your vision, you're in the most amazing state you can be, you see where you want to go, you feel where you want to go, you feel positive and the next step is clear, the support is there, the resources are there, that's when things are easy.


2. When things are hard...



When the resources and support aren't there, and the next step isn't clear, but you still have a deep connection to your vision, things are hard.


3. When things are HARD HARD.




When all things seemingly disappear, when the clouds of doubt and shame seem to completely overcome you and obstruct the view. 




When you know you want to go beyond your current limitations but have no clue where to start and are overcome by doubt and unclarity.



When your own trauma is activated and your own body works against you.




When every ounce of you says "I've had enough, it's time to throw in the towel", "you're not meant for this, this isn't for you,", "this is too hard, you'll never make it."




When the entire known world seems to be melting down around you and all reference points are lost.


That's the hard hard.


Heroes aren't born.


They are made, during the hard hard times.


In today's times, we are all collectively facing the hard hard.


As you face the hard hard, in whatever way it appears for you, you have a choice to stand by passively, or step into the hero.


Here's how I do it:


First, and this is huge don't skip it, I embrace what I feel, fully.


What you resists persists, what you embrace dissolves.


The light cannot be the light unless it penetrates the darkness, you must be willing to feel fully, even if it's abominable.


As I feel fully, then I apply what I've learned over the years...


I've learned that during the darkest moments you can't rely on conviction, confidence, or prowess.


Instead, the key is to connect deeper to your True self, with a capital T.


I can only rely on the memory that one time, when I was in a heightened elevated visionary state I could feel what I was moving towards.


In those moments I take deep breaths and connect to what I remember deep inside, and I remind myself that it is truer than the temporary doubt and fuzziness I feel in this moment.


In those moments, I remind myself that the doubt, scarcity, or fear I feel is only there because the only thing that can be missing is more of me in this moment, more of my presence, more of my love, more of my willingness to trust...


I then ask myself "What else is possible?"


It's about sending energy to what you truly believe.


...and I trust, and I move forward, just one step forward.


And then all of a sudden, the hard hard, that immovable wall in-front of me...


It starts to crumble, it starts to move, and light starts pouring in through the cracks.


And I get excited.


That's when I feel unstoppable.


These hard hard moments are required for you to become the person you need to become in order to embody the thing you've been calling in.


If you envision a life of courage.


Your courage will be tested.


If you envision a life of love.


Your love will be tested.


You will find the limits of your courage and your love.


And when you embrace but don't accept those limits as the ultimate truth, and keep asking "what else is possible?"


You become the person you were meant to be.


As the events of our time unfold globally, many are looking for others to blame or others to lead them.


I say, do neither.


Become the hero you were meant to be, step into your power, lead yourself, lead your family, your community, and create the new world from within.


Kacper

Some days I wish I never read this damn book.


There are some things that once you see, you can't un-see.


This book f***ed me up. (in a good way!)


...it propelled me into a way of life that has been both thrilling and terrifying and has taken me through the highest highs and to the lowest lows.


If you haven't read the book, it's the extraordinary account of one man's radical "surrender experiment."


Michael Singer realized at one point that life had a lot more to offer him than he had to take for himself and decided to surrender to life.


I'm sure you've heard of spiritual "surrender", but Michael took it to the extreme...


...As an example, at one point someone started building a house on his property without his consent...


...instead of calling the cops he simply grabbed his toolset and his work apron, went over to the job site, and said "Hey, I noticed you're building a house on my land, how can I help?"


That house ended up being part of an ashram which led to many beautiful things.


Without even intending it, as he adopted this lifestyle and ended up becoming a billionaire through falling in love with life.


It's one of the greatest stories of all time.


I read this book at the tail-end of 2019... and had one giant meltdown of a realization.


That realization was: I had no clue how to really live.


With all my adventuring, wild leaps of faith, and incredible feats of entrepreneurial courage I thought I knew how to live....


...Up until then, I was telling myself stories in my head where I saw myself as someone on the cutting edge of existence.


...but after reading this story, I realized I was fooling myself.


I thought I trusted life and myself, but as I looked inside all I found was a scared little boy clutching onto the last of dollars in his bank account thinking they provided him some imaginary safety and security.


I never fully let go... not until I read that book.


I remember the very moment it happened.


I was sitting at my desk contemplating my plans as the world appeared to be burning down before me.


I looked behind me and saw all my history and every piece of identity I was clutching onto, all my successes and failures, and how they had shaped who I thought I was.


I looked ahead of me and I saw the future that my mind was weaving for me... all the things I thought I "had" to do.


I noticed how this future had a lot to do with the feeling in my belly attached to the numbers in my bank account which dictated what was possible or not possible for me.


I started to rebel against that feeling


And the funny thing was...


...For the first time, I saw that that future had everything to do with perpetuating the guy who I thought I was.


...all my future plans and ideations were just iterations on the same old things I always did... and they were getting old.


It had very little to do with discovering who I really was and what I was really capable of.


The principles I interpreted from Michael's book were simple...


1. Whatever is happening is meant to be happening, go with it.


2. SURRENDER, do what your heart tells you, even if your mind tells you you're going to die, and trust.


It was nothing new to me... but his story made it go deeper into my bones.


So in one sweeping moment, I took a deep breath, and I JUST. F***NG. LET. GO.


It was cathartic and terrifying.


I took the last of my money and started a retreat company in the middle of 2020 when every airport was closed and no one was traveling.


Insane, but my heart said it was the right move, and it worked.


(It included building a make-shift retreat center almost from scratch in Mexico on a whim.)


That path took me traveling and flying all over doing some pretty wild things in the heart of the most difficult time on the planet and showed me a side of humanity I'll never forget.


When that chapter ended, I moved back home and did the next hardest thing I ever did: nothing.


I didn't want to do anything unless it was authentic and genuine.


I meditated for 2-3 hours every day sitting at home for months.


I cried the depths of my sorrows out night after night... because that's what was happening...


With every tear that rolled down my face, space inside of me opened up for something new.


Eventually the idea for "Sail the Stars" came into my field, and I initiated the project... a sailing voyage to inspire people to move past their blockages and turn wild visions into reality.


The project took some wild successful turns, money poured out of the sky, I ended up in Spain, and met a girl.


The project then took some unsuspected bad turns, I plunged into a full-on depression and chronic fatigue the likes of which I didn't experience before.


That led me to my mentor Dr. Kim D'Eramo, who healed my chronic fatigue, and depression and gave me the skills and abilities to do the transformational magic I do with people these days. (I now assist people in moving fear and depression in moments)


I flew back to Ecuador and rebuilt my life and business based on my new experience.


The girl and I broke up.


I met an incredible business mentor who completely revolutionized how I look at life and business.


That was one challenging and amazing year that came to an end as I decided to hike a mountain in the middle of a lightning-hail storm...


...coming home soaked, nearly avoiding a landslide I jumped into a cab and instead of going home grabbed a Pizza with a friend who came across my path...


...sitting soaked, smiling ear to ear with gratitude for life, the conversation over that pizza was life-changing and led me to pick up my sailing project again with an entirely more grounded plan.


I decided to leave Ecuador the following week and would have left except life had other plans.


I somehow tripped and fell in love with someone I shouldn't have, it was complicated, and it hurt a lot, but it opened my heart up to an entirely new level of love and possibilities.


Now I'm back in Spain, I've got my daughter nearby, I'm living in a wooden yurt taking care of three cats.


My life mission and message are clearer than ever, the first boat and voyage is waiting in Greece, and in 40 days I'll be a fulltime sailboat captain for a month making inspirational videos while adventuring with awesome people as we hop from one majestic island in Greece to another to connect with deep life vision and transmute our collective blocks.


The point in sharing all this?


Five years ago I was crying alone on a mountain-top without a clue of what to do with my life.


This week I'm buying some fins and a snorkel and practicing free-diving off the coast as much as possible by the Ocean so I can do some spear-fishing.


I didn't really plan for any of this.


Yet somehow I am exactly where I always wanted to be: alive, in my best shape and health ever, pushing my boundaries, living in nature, doing my best work, and discovering what's possible.


Sure, I had visions and goals, but I found the more I clutched onto "how" I thought they would transpire the more life ripped that "how" out of my hands and sent me curveballs.


The more I went with the curve-balls, the more they took me down the path I was meant to go, which ended up the more direct and scenic route anyway to exactly where I needed to be.


What I've learned from living this way for four and a half years is exactly this....


...Life truly has more to offer you than you can take for yourself, it's full to the brim.


You just have to let go, embrace the unknown, and surrender, and the path will be revealed.


Yes, some days I wish I had never read the book...



... but those are usually the days when the guy inside me who just wants to sit on a rocking chair and grow tomatoes takes over for a little bit.


Living a life of divine surrender isn't always easy.


Sometimes it means hiking up a mountain into a hail-filled lightning storm.


Sometimes it means getting your heart broken., and then using every ounce of your courage to love again.


It takes guts, grit, devotion, and the skills to be able to navigate

your own neurology to regulate your nervous system as you make massive upgrades and shifts in your life - it's not for the faint of heart.


However, in the end, it's worth it.


Kacper

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